Introduction.

Welcome to what may be your greatest adventure in life.

I do not think I am the son of god or the resurrection of Einstein, I wouldn't say I'm as brave as the great Alexander or as smart as Buddha.

I do not think I can tactically lead a war or stop a siege,

Frankly, I'm not sure i could even stop a bar fight between two drunk girls.

Well then you may ask, ''Why would this guy compare himself to a painkiller?'', even though I don't think I have the ability to stop any physical pain I do believe I can help the ones who feel sometimes lost, insecure, lonely or just feel they could use someone to cry, laugh, or talk with them.

A few years ago I had this obsession with the word 'confidence', I used to scribble it on notebooks, say it frequently to friends and family, and repeat it in front of my bathroom mirror every night, soon the word confidence became a part of me, actually, more than just a part of me, I was confidence.

Being one of the shortest kids in high school didn't stand in my way of becoming one of the most loved people in high school, I gave people the respect they deserve while being confident when I did not get the respect I deserve, if a man would walk up to me today and ask me what in my opinion would you need to be successful in life I would definitely say to give respect and have confidence.

People like feeling respected, people like knowing they are worth something, sometimes in life a man loses his confidence and finds himself lost and confused, he does not know if he is even worth being respected which will gradually effect his whole life.

I'll give you a Little example ;

A few weeks ago I was in a party talking to one of my old friends, i used to go out with her when we we're back in junior high, we we're just talking about how we don't see each other anymore and we should meet up sometimes, I didn't truly mean it but I think she did.

Anyways, her best friend comes up and asks if she is interrupting us, I politely answer 'no', the truth is she didn't, then she started telling a story and asked if I remember it, her story went like this ; 'Do you remember back in junior high you sat with some friend of yours, (she didn't remember who) and I came and sat down next to you and you asked me 'do you know what is the feeling when you talk to someone you like alone and then someone annoying comes and sits next to you?' she claims up to now she finds herself always asking if she is interrupting when she steps into a conversation between her mom and the shop clerk, although I was flattered by the idea that I was that awesome so many years ago, and had enough confidence to say that to her, I did have a hard time realising I could be that disgusting to people back then, I understood somewhere along the way I learned to respect people, now thinking of it I gave her years of trauma when coming close to two people talking and fitting in, god knows what she missed in all those conversations, you will learn soon that one of the things I say all the time is to never give up on any kind of experience, If its listening to some one's story or if its just looking at the screen when someone says 'Dude you have to see this...'

Julius Caesar himself said '

Experience is the teacher of all things.' and I believe he knew a thing or two.

'Please stop talking and explain this blog !'

You should be confused by now, GOOD!.

If your not, you will be soon, the whole point of this blog is for you to travel with me into the minds of people, making yourself a better person and learning to love yourself, no matter who stands in your way.

I hope with the help of my blog you will learn that when you let yourself be yourself, everyone will follow you.

When you stand confident but at the same time give people the respect they deserve you will get the respect you'r worth of.

People travel all the way to the far east or the rivers of Brazil to 'find themselves', why travel thousand's of miles to find something that is sitting inside you?.

I hope people will enter this blog once a week to learn more about themselves, grow their confidence and find the answers they are looking for.

Find me at TheYoungPK@gmail.com if your looking for 1 on 1 chat.

See you in a week, Truly yours,

                                The young pain killer.